The brush: It is said, brushing lightly across, with lingering smooth strokes brand the painted surface even, under the guise of a different persuasion , “these days”, more of the opinion; ‘tainted’, unevenly across the tainted surface of which was never even in the first instance; especially when the ends of these brushes break-up and fray the way they do . Problem being as yet the “community” hasn’t truly appreciated the magnitude, the importance, what Community needs to stay communal as yet fully considered the sheer Holy Grail sentiment of familial relationships. Such a bond between Parents and child can never be underestimated, or even underrated, and the point being many a’ pre-occupation spends time focusing on the Father and his child and their relationship- what it is not, what it is - how vibrant pulse beats vein evoking the symptoms of earth which plentiful “no good Fathers” can’t even walk across, with a sense of pride.
Magnitude? Let us get to it- visit has frequented the welcome of five young men in three different psychiatric wards last year, and by the time Season stumbled on September, four more yet to see also attendance befitting two burials last year, two the previous year all-in-all six burials in seven-years, and the statistics of failing Youth in schools, the statistics adding-up the disproportionate number of Fathers in jail, murdered, arrested, spawned from dysfunctional families’ and pretty much forgotten about. Consequently hard to see projects like The Daddy Cool Project, notice DCP championing whilst expressing the needs of the sentiment of which can’t help but wonder how it was “we” came from more, and when it’s necessary and not just pleasing to hear the efforts of DCP. And oh yes this brush of which taints the good work, the so-called “good” Fathers and their “efforts”, stigmatising the beautiful Youth flourishing luxuriantly when unfortunately; season coming to the time when “community” really has to consider what’s really going on, and even when some with the enthused believeth call it a “modern-day genocide” regrettably common-sense taking note of the logic.
Community needs to stroke a better quality of brush, as things stand, stereotypes booming-out their faultless echoes all no good for the Community, granted justified the reasoning behind many a’ impressions about Fathers, and family as a whole, “these days”, as if over a period of time families’ and individuals have learnt how to become emotionally vacant, bottom-line being the problem of which taints the entire community, every vague façade, and within ‘shy-away’ really is in the statistics, “situation” actually akin to the jail numbers to the psychiatric wards, according to the devil in the detail, fashionably ignored, in reality about the communities filing-up the failing schools adding to the “waiting list” trying ever-so hard to flee the dysfunctional family, with its swaying fundamental nature impeding appliers and visionaries alike.
Divining details prescribes; stigmatically, emotionally-vacant Fathers are not, seen it with the same eyes used to model this opinion on, fortunate to cherish Fatherhood with welcoming hands, watched many a’ Fathers cherish the same thing and Fathers are not looking for plaudits, or praise or even a different kind of respect from society in general, while exhausted still has the ability to quietly irate; just tired of the same clichéd stroke is-all, and sensibility don’t want to feel it nor waste precious time consuming it. In essence; Fatherhood entirely the same as what needs to be done, “community” stronger for it and the self-mutilation not what the community needs, not what attentions should be focused on and with the aid of The Daddy Cool Project; surly more motivation for the necessary instead, and it has now been said: community needs to stroke a better quality of brush, apply reasoning evenly, disperse with the brushes with the ends breaking-up and fray giving way.